Thursday, December 29, 2011

As The Year Ends

Wow, where does time go, I can't believe it has been such a long time since I posted anything to this blog. I am going to try to do better in 2012. As most of my blog friends know I had a really rough year the last half of 2010 and most of 2011. I am hoping 2012 rings in brighter. I've never really talked about the path my life has taken me down on this blog, and won't go into all the details now, but I will for the sake of bloghood touch on it.
In June of 2010 I made a life changing decision to move out of the house and leave my marriage of almost 10 years to move in with a man I had been previously involved with 12 years prior. This move also broke up his marriage and since this is our second time around his wife didn't take it very well. (not saying that I can blame her). Out of hurt and bitterness and scorn she has taken him for over half his pay check each month and has caused him financial ruin by dumping all the unpaid bills they incurred on him. Lots and lots of drama over the past 18 months which I won't go into. Her behavior has been the main cause of why I shut my other blog down and don't update this one often. Simply put my life is none of her business. However I have given it some thought and have decided in 2012 to keep this blog open and to update it at lest once a week. I am tired of her having control of my life and of what I do with it. Let me start by saying Happy New Year and I am looking forward to getting back to blogging

2 comments:

kim said...

Drama, drama, drama, glad you are happy and surviving it!
XOXO

PEA said...

Happy New Year to you and yours, dear Patty! Christmas has finally been put away and I now have more time to concentrate on my blogging. I'm looking forward to some quiet days ahead:-)

I can understand how stressful life has been for you the last two years but here's hoping that everyone will leave you and D alone and you can go on with being happy together:-) I'm also glad that you plan on keeping this blog going...guess what, I got a geocaching gps for Christmas so as soon as the weather warms up a bit (it's -1F today!), I plan on starting the geocaching adventure fun:-)

Looking forward to another year of friendship with you. xoxo